The 7 people you need in your life by age 30

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This post originally appeared on The Zoe Report.

Really great people take a lifetime of trial and error, and careful curation, to gather into your closest circle. The people who are right for someone else might not be right for you, and vice versa.

Likewise, the people who are right for your twenties might not be right for your thirties, and the people who are right for your thirties might not be quite right for your forties. You can’t quite plan any of this, but what you can do is know when you’ve stumbled upon the kind of person it’s worthwhile to work hard to keep in your life.

Here, seven of those people, who will be absolutely essential to your health and happiness as you live, learn and grow.

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A non-judgmental bestie

We think this person is of the utmost importance, because you’re not always going to do things that are 100 percent awesome in life, and a true friend is one that makes you feel as though you’re worth love and support not just as your best self, but as your worst self as well. Some friends will consistently give you their black-and-white moral judgment of a situation, and there’s certainly a place in life for that type of friend, too; however, look to keep at least one non-judgmental friend close to the vest, as we can pretty much ensure you’ll need him or her at many points along the road.


A brutally honest friend

This person is a perfect compliment to the non-judgmental friend. They will always give you the truth, no matter how hard it is to hear. Should you text that guy again? Probably not, according to this pal. Did you blow your last relationship? Yep, according to this honest guy or gal. Should you cut your hair into a bob? Absolutely not, according to your most honest confidante. You may resist his or her feedback on occasion—we ultimately have to learn lessons in our own way and in our own time, unfortunately—but it’s important to be as open as possible to this sometimes harsh take on things. Hopefully, this person will save you from leaving the house looking like a trainwreck on occasion, at the very least.


A trusted OB-GYN

Having someone you don’t dread seeing on call to take care of your lady business is important. As you move from your twenties to your thirties to your forties, your OBGYN will wear many hats for you—they will see you through the boyfriends of your twenties, the relationships of your thirties, and they may even deliver your children! As such, they should be someone you feel comfortable confiding in, as well as someone whose opinion you wholeheartedly trust.


A career mentor

So, people don’t really have defined careers in the way that they used to, and chances are that the shape of yours will change often over time. That said, it’s advisable to have one person in your life who is at least ten years older than you and who has traversed a path somewhat similar to the one which you foresee for yourself. This is the person you will turn to for advice when given a job offer, looking to switch jobs, or wanting to break into a new field altogether. This should also be a person upon whom you can rely for recommendations.

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By Erin Nicole for The Zoe Report.
This post originally appeared on The Zoe Report.

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