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The Best Vibrators You Can Get at the Drugstore, According to a Sex-Toy Expert
October 21, 2020
The Best Vibrators You Can Get at the Drugstore, According to a Sex-Toy Expert
The drugstore is a one-stop shop for everything from beloved skin-care products to sparkling water…
By Zoe Weiner
In My Long-Term Partnership, Making Up Doesn't Include Makeup Sex—Should I Be Worried?
October 21, 2020
In My Long-Term Partnership, Making Up Doesn't Include Makeup Sex—Should I Be Worried?
Question: I've been with my partner in a committed, monogamous relationship for a long time,…
By Alexandra Fine
Sexual Aftercare Isn't Just a BDSM Thing—Here's Why Everyone Should Try It
October 20, 2020
Sexual Aftercare Isn't Just a BDSM Thing—Here's Why Everyone Should Try It
If you’ve ever experienced postcoital dysphoria (or felt the post-sex blues)—an hour, day, or even…
By Mary Grace Garis
Everything You Need To Know About WAP, Vaginal Dryness, and Arousal, According to Experts
October 19, 2020
Everything You Need To Know About WAP, Vaginal Dryness, and Arousal, According to Experts
Over the summer, Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion blessed the world by dropping the…
By Jamie LeClaire
How To Play With Boobs: 'Tit'illating Tips for Breast Arousal and Maximum Pleasure
October 17, 2020
How To Play With Boobs: 'Tit'illating Tips for Breast Arousal and Maximum Pleasure
Tending to your under-appreciated erogenous zones is certainly a worthy pleasure goal, and the easiest…
By Mary Grace Garis & Helen Carefoot
This Best-Selling Vibrator Promises an Orgasm in 60 Seconds or Less—And It's Almost $50 Off Right Now
October 16, 2020
This Best-Selling Vibrator Promises an Orgasm in 60 Seconds or Less—And It's Almost $50 Off Right Now
As the old saying goes: You can't buy happiness, but you can buy a vibrator. Okay, so…
By Kells McPhillips
5 Aphrodisiac Arousal Serums To Turn You On and Infuse Your Sex Life With Desire
October 15, 2020
5 Aphrodisiac Arousal Serums To Turn You On and Infuse Your Sex Life With Desire
Want to know more about arousal serums? You've come to the right place. An aphrodisiac…
By Mary Grace Garis
6 Ways To Use Heat To Banish Painful Sex and Make Pleasure…Hotter
October 14, 2020
6 Ways To Use Heat To Banish Painful Sex and Make Pleasure…Hotter
Hot. *Fire emoji*. Smokin'. Heat-conjuring words are often called upon to describe good sex, but…
By Gabrielle Kassel
A Neuroscientist's Top 8 Mental Hacks To Help You Have Better Sex Tonight
October 13, 2020
A Neuroscientist's Top 8 Mental Hacks To Help You Have Better Sex Tonight
I was this many days old when I learned that the brain is a highly…
By Mary Grace Garis
The Term 'Sexual Preference' Is Outdated, Offensive, and Incorrect
October 13, 2020
The Term 'Sexual Preference' Is Outdated, Offensive, and Incorrect
During Tuesday's confirmation hearing at the Senate Judiciary Committee, Judge Amy Coney Barrett, President Trump's…
By Erin Bunch
I Took a Bed-Dancing Class To Feel More Comfortable Having Video Sex—Here's What It was Like
October 12, 2020
I Took a Bed-Dancing Class To Feel More Comfortable Having Video Sex—Here's What It was Like
As a sex writer, I've long preached the importance of pleasure both solo and in…
By Gabrielle Kassel
This Heated Wand Vibrator and Personal Massager Is a Multi-Purpose Pleasure Hero
October 10, 2020
This Heated Wand Vibrator and Personal Massager Is a Multi-Purpose Pleasure Hero
Before self-pleasure became an accepted and celebrated form of self care, there was a long…
By Mary Grace Garis
6 Common Mistakes To Avoid When Cleaning Your Sex Toys, According to Sexologists
October 09, 2020
6 Common Mistakes To Avoid When Cleaning Your Sex Toys, According to Sexologists
Like doing laundry and loading the dishwasher correctly, cleaning sex toys is a necessary skill…
By Mary Grace Garis
OK TMI: Should I Be Worried About Being, Ahem, Too Tight After a Serious Sex Draught
October 08, 2020
OK TMI: Should I Be Worried About Being, Ahem, Too Tight After a Serious Sex Draught
I bruised my vagina the other day. The specifics are unimportant (or, more accurately, information…
By Mary Grace Garis
7 Eco-Friendly Sex Tips To Make Your Pleasure More Sustainable
October 07, 2020
7 Eco-Friendly Sex Tips To Make Your Pleasure More Sustainable
Between the food we eat, the clothes we wear, and the transportation we use, it's…
By Rae Ritchie
Can Sexual Robotics Replace the Human Touch During the Pandemic? I Gave It a Try
October 06, 2020
Can Sexual Robotics Replace the Human Touch During the Pandemic? I Gave It a Try
I met up with my college roommate recently and tried to explain (a) what I…
By Mary Grace Garis
4 Tips For Proudly Introducing Kink Into Your Relationship, According to a Sexologist
October 05, 2020
4 Tips For Proudly Introducing Kink Into Your Relationship, According to a Sexologist
If during this time in quarantine, you've done some sexual exploring about what gets you…
By Mary Grace Garis
I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me
October 02, 2020
I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me
As a trans, nonbinary, agender person, navigating sex and pleasure is often challenging. That's in…
By Jamie LeClaire
Sex Educators Share 6 Strap-On Sex Tips To Know Before, Well, Strapping On
October 01, 2020
Sex Educators Share 6 Strap-On Sex Tips To Know Before, Well, Strapping On
Strap-on sex is a customizable, queer-positive sexual experience that holds the potential to level up…
By Tiffany Curtis
I've Never Orgasmed (and Have Definitely Tried)—What Does Pleasure Look Like for Me?
September 30, 2020
I've Never Orgasmed (and Have Definitely Tried)—What Does Pleasure Look Like for Me?
Question: I've never had an orgasm—and trust me, I've tried. But I do still have…
By Alexandra Fine
What the Heck Is a Sex Serum? Meet the Product That Promises Smooth Sexual Sailing
September 29, 2020
What the Heck Is a Sex Serum? Meet the Product That Promises Smooth Sexual Sailing
I know, I know, there are already products dedicated to keeping things flowing smoothly in…
By Mary Grace Garis
The Pleasure-Boosting Case for Being Loud and Proud During Sex
September 28, 2020
The Pleasure-Boosting Case for Being Loud and Proud During Sex
Even though the tides are changing in terms of sex positivity, being outspoken about the…
By Mary Grace Garis
How a New Wave of Inclusive Sexual Wellness Products Ensures Pleasure Is for All
September 24, 2020
How a New Wave of Inclusive Sexual Wellness Products Ensures Pleasure Is for All
Sexual wellness brand Cake was founded in June with two guiding intentions in mind. The…
By Mary Grace Garis
7 Tips for Finding Your Pleasure With a Partner Who Ejaculates Prematurely
September 23, 2020
7 Tips for Finding Your Pleasure With a Partner Who Ejaculates Prematurely
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual issue that as many as one in three…
By Mary Grace Garis
9 Different Condom Brands To Know About That'll Keep You Safe and Satisfied
September 21, 2020
9 Different Condom Brands To Know About That'll Keep You Safe and Satisfied
Condom design has thankfully expanded quite a bit since, as Greek mythology goes, King Minos…
By Mary Grace Garis
The Best Vibrators for Women and all Vulva-Owners, According to Sexperts
September 19, 2020
The Best Vibrators for Women and all Vulva-Owners, According to Sexperts
If you have questions about sex, porn sites are seemingly the easiest place to find…
By Zoe Weiner
7 Ways Watching Porn With a Partner Can Be a Great Relationship Booster
September 17, 2020
7 Ways Watching Porn With a Partner Can Be a Great Relationship Booster
Sure, "Netflix and chill" can be an effective game plan for spurring some post-TV binge…
By Gabrielle Kassel
This Pelvic-Floor Trainer Finally Taught Me How to Do Kegels—And Now I Recommend It to Everyone I Know With a Vagina
September 16, 2020
This Pelvic-Floor Trainer Finally Taught Me How to Do Kegels—And Now I Recommend It to Everyone I Know With a Vagina
I’ve never truly understood how to do Kegels (aka the process of flexing and releasing…
By Eva Rohan
The Top Sexual Audio Erotica Apps and Platforms for You Listening Pleasure
September 15, 2020
The Top Sexual Audio Erotica Apps and Platforms for You Listening Pleasure
Whether you’re experienced with the world of audio erotica apps and audio sex stories or…
By Mary Grace Garis
7 Suction Sex Toys That Make Receiving Oral a DIY, Solo Exercise
September 14, 2020
7 Suction Sex Toys That Make Receiving Oral a DIY, Solo Exercise
If you've never tried using suction sex toys and you like receiving oral sex, prepare…
By Mary Grace Garis
What a Butt Doctor and a Sexologist Want You To Know About Anal Oral
September 10, 2020
What a Butt Doctor and a Sexologist Want You To Know About Anal Oral
Okay, no beating around the bush, here: Anal oral is on the menu today, friends,…
By Mary Grace Garis
6 Lube Myths You've Been Internalizing, Busted
September 09, 2020
6 Lube Myths You've Been Internalizing, Busted
Despite being one of the most recognizable and accessible sex accessories on the market, personal lubricant…
By Mary Grace Garis
The 4 Golden Rules of Sending Hot Nudes Safely, According to a Sex Coach
September 08, 2020
The 4 Golden Rules of Sending Hot Nudes Safely, According to a Sex Coach
You might want to get familiar with your camera settings (or at least brace yourself…
By Mary Grace Garis
This 2-Month Mars Retrograde Packs Big Sexual Energy—But What Does That Mean During a Pandemic?
September 05, 2020
This 2-Month Mars Retrograde Packs Big Sexual Energy—But What Does That Mean During a Pandemic?
Mars retrograde is nearly upon us, and since we're in the middle of a pandemic,…
By Mary Grace Garis
I'm a Sex Therapist, and This Is the Most Common Issue I Treat
September 03, 2020
I'm a Sex Therapist, and This Is the Most Common Issue I Treat
Sex therapist and cognitive scientist Nan Wise, PhD, author of Good Sex Matters, has been…
By Mary Grace Garis
Want a More Satisfying Sex Life? Here Are the 4 Golden Rules of Talking About Sex With a Partner
September 01, 2020
Want a More Satisfying Sex Life? Here Are the 4 Golden Rules of Talking About Sex With a Partner
Even amid a full-blown pleasure revolution wherein a sex-positive landscape is absolutely the accepted norm,…
By Mary Grace Garis
We’ve Got To Come Up With a Game Plan To Make Casual Sex a Thing Again
August 30, 2020
We’ve Got To Come Up With a Game Plan To Make Casual Sex a Thing Again
Because the potential of death overshadowed our desire for joy, 2020 is when f**king around…
By Marcus K. Dowling
8 Sex Toys for Different Body Parts That'll Help You Feel Pleasure *Everywhere*
August 28, 2020
8 Sex Toys for Different Body Parts That'll Help You Feel Pleasure *Everywhere*
While self-pleasure can certainly function as a straightforward matter that leads you to grab your…
By Mary Grace Garis
Is Wearing a Mask During Sex Really Safer During a Pandemic? Here’s What a Doctor Thinks
August 27, 2020
Is Wearing a Mask During Sex Really Safer During a Pandemic? Here’s What a Doctor Thinks
Masked sex is hot topic since the New York City Department of Health released its…
By Mary Grace Garis
What Doctors Want You To Know About Phexxi, a New, Non-Hormonal Birth Control Option
August 27, 2020
What Doctors Want You To Know About Phexxi, a New, Non-Hormonal Birth Control Option
In the 60 years since the FDA approved the first birth control pill—which uses hormones…
By Emily Laurence
8 Sex Toys for Couples To Insert Some Fresh Buzz Into Your Relationship
August 26, 2020
8 Sex Toys for Couples To Insert Some Fresh Buzz Into Your Relationship
One is said to be the loneliest number, but if you've been quarantined with your…
By Mary Grace Garis
Help! I Can't Stop Doomsturbating—That Is, Masturbating While Doomscrolling
August 24, 2020
Help! I Can't Stop Doomsturbating—That Is, Masturbating While Doomscrolling
For those working from home full-time right now, the myth of a balance may feel…
By Gabrielle Kassel
6 Different Oral Sex Positions Every Vulva-Owner Should Experience, According to a Sexologist
August 22, 2020
6 Different Oral Sex Positions Every Vulva-Owner Should Experience, According to a Sexologist
For some vulva-owners, oral sex functions mostly as an A+ sexual appetizer. For others, it's…
By Mary Grace Garis
Is Having Sex Too Soon in a Relationship Still a Thing? Because, TBH, I've Never Been Hornier
August 20, 2020
Is Having Sex Too Soon in a Relationship Still a Thing? Because, TBH, I've Never Been Hornier
Question While dating during the pandemic, I've noticed some of my typical habits and patterns…
By Alexandra Fine
How To Use Kegel Balls To Strengthen Your Pelvic Muscles and Your Sex Life
August 18, 2020
How To Use Kegel Balls To Strengthen Your Pelvic Muscles and Your Sex Life
Thanks in large part to Sex and the City, I've been long aware of the…
By Mary Grace Garis
Shower Sex Actually Doesn't Have To Suck, Thanks to 5 Tips From a Sexologist
August 17, 2020
Shower Sex Actually Doesn't Have To Suck, Thanks to 5 Tips From a Sexologist
For the duration of my sexually active life, I've believed that shower sex fully and…
By Mary Grace Garis
Grab the Popcorn and Binge These 10 Queer-Positive Films From the '80s and '90s That Still Land
August 17, 2020
Grab the Popcorn and Binge These 10 Queer-Positive Films From the '80s and '90s That Still Land
Movies like Booksmart, Love, Simon, and Brokeback Mountain are lauded for their nuanced exploration of…
By Gabrielle Kassel
What Your Sexual Attachment Style Can Tell You About Your Intimate Preferences
August 15, 2020
What Your Sexual Attachment Style Can Tell You About Your Intimate Preferences
I used to think that I didn't have a type, despite my past choices displaying…
By Allie Flinn
Could Anal Kegels Save You From Unnecessary Sharting Disasters? Here's What an Anal Surgeon Says
August 13, 2020
Could Anal Kegels Save You From Unnecessary Sharting Disasters? Here's What an Anal Surgeon Says
Let's just jump into it, shall we? You probably know that flexing your Kegels is…
By Mary Grace Garis
10 Freezer-Friendly Sex Toys For Beating the Heat in the Most Pleasurable Way
August 10, 2020
10 Freezer-Friendly Sex Toys For Beating the Heat in the Most Pleasurable Way
What do online sex toy sales and temperature have in common? They’re both soaring, arguably…
By Gabrielle Kassel
3 Ways To Approximate a Threesome in Your Relationship When You Can't Actually Find a Third
August 03, 2020
3 Ways To Approximate a Threesome in Your Relationship When You Can't Actually Find a Third
The safer-sex guidelines issued by the New York Department of Health and Mental Hygiene for…
By Mary Grace Garis
These New Tracy's Dog Sex Toys Promise To Deliver Your Next Turbo-Orgasm
July 31, 2020
These New Tracy's Dog Sex Toys Promise To Deliver Your Next Turbo-Orgasm
If you've heard of Tracy's Dog sex toys, it's probably from a million hyped-up Amazon…
By Mary Grace Garis
I Tried Out Rose Bush Butter, and Yes, It's Exactly What It Sounds Like
July 30, 2020
I Tried Out Rose Bush Butter, and Yes, It's Exactly What It Sounds Like
Let's jump in: residing on my nightstand is Rose Bush Pussy Butter ($40), an organic…
By Mary Grace Garis
These 7 Accessories for Sex That *Aren't* Vibrators Will Rev Up Your Pleasure Experience
July 30, 2020
These 7 Accessories for Sex That *Aren't* Vibrators Will Rev Up Your Pleasure Experience
When looking to up-level pleasure experiences with the help of toys and other tools, the…
By Mary Grace Garis
I Hate Sexting, But it Feels Like My Best Bet at Partnered Intimacy During the Pandemic—What Should I Do?
July 29, 2020
I Hate Sexting, But it Feels Like My Best Bet at Partnered Intimacy During the Pandemic—What Should I Do?
Question I'm single and am not new to dating apps, but pre-COVID, I used them…
By Alexandra Fine
8 Luxury Sex Toys Over $150 That Offer Priceless Loads of Pleasure
July 27, 2020
8 Luxury Sex Toys Over $150 That Offer Priceless Loads of Pleasure
Luxury sex toys are usually classified as any product that’ll cost you $150 buckeroos or…
By Gabrielle Kassel
Science Says These Are the Best Songs To Have Sex To
July 25, 2020
Science Says These Are the Best Songs To Have Sex To
One of the upsides of sleeping with men who flip their records in the middle…
By Mary Grace Garis
Why You Might Be Able To Blame Your Brain Fog on Pent-Up Horniness, According to a Neuroscientist
July 23, 2020
Why You Might Be Able To Blame Your Brain Fog on Pent-Up Horniness, According to a Neuroscientist
We already know that brain fog in general is an all-too-common affliction of the pandemic.…
By Mary Grace Garis
How COVID-19 Became an Indoor Recess of Sorts for Sexual Pleasure
July 21, 2020
How COVID-19 Became an Indoor Recess of Sorts for Sexual Pleasure
At the end of 2019, Well+Good forecasted that the next year would bring a sex-positive…
By Kells McPhillips
I’m a Sex Coach, and These Are My 7 Best Tips for Overcoming Sexual Hang-Ups and Roadblocks
July 20, 2020
I’m a Sex Coach, and These Are My 7 Best Tips for Overcoming Sexual Hang-Ups and Roadblocks
It seems pretty obvious that 2020 will go down in history as a, ahem, complicated…
By Mary Grace Garis
These Are the Top Songs People Masturbate To—And the 7 Songs They *Should* Masturbate To
July 13, 2020
These Are the Top Songs People Masturbate To—And the 7 Songs They *Should* Masturbate To
Let's dive in, shall we? Lingerie brand Pour Moi recently investigated Spotify data to see…
By Mary Grace Garis
5 Sexologist Tips for Experiencing the Pleasure-Rich Depths of the Cervical Orgasm
July 13, 2020
5 Sexologist Tips for Experiencing the Pleasure-Rich Depths of the Cervical Orgasm
Folks with a vagina have a number of pleasure zones and, thus, a number of…
By Mary Grace Garis
If You Like Anal Play But Are Quarantining Alone, You're Going To Want This Sex Toy
July 10, 2020
If You Like Anal Play But Are Quarantining Alone, You're Going To Want This Sex Toy
Right around when social distancing orders were put into place in mid-March, the New York…
By Gabrielle Kassel
How To Heat Up Your Sex Life Using Your 8th House in Astrology
July 07, 2020
How To Heat Up Your Sex Life Using Your 8th House in Astrology
The 8th house in astrology is considered to be the zodiac wheel's underworld—or its sex…
By Mary Grace Garis
OK Tmi: Am I, Uh, Supposed To Be Washing My Vagina After Sex?
July 03, 2020
OK Tmi: Am I, Uh, Supposed To Be Washing My Vagina After Sex?
After any sort of sexual experience, whether with a partner or on your own, it's…
By Zoe Weiner
The Sexperts' 9-Step Guide to Safe and Fun Virtual Threesomes
June 30, 2020
The Sexperts' 9-Step Guide to Safe and Fun Virtual Threesomes
Being under lockdown has enticed a number of folks to explore new avenues of sexual…
By Mary Grace Garis
It's More Than Just Lube: 3 CBD Sexual-Wellness Products To Try ASAP
June 29, 2020
It's More Than Just Lube: 3 CBD Sexual-Wellness Products To Try ASAP
CBD-infused skin care? Been there. A drop of CBD in your morning coffee? Just your…
By Well+Good Editors
I'm Stressed About the World and Have a Low Libido To Match—Would Having Sex Help Me Relax?
June 25, 2020
I'm Stressed About the World and Have a Low Libido To Match—Would Having Sex Help Me Relax?
As the COVID-19 pandemic continues to spread, stopping the virus remains our top collective priority—and…
By Alexandra Fine
11 Fresh Masturbation Ideas To Spice Up Your Solo Play, Straight From Sexperts
June 24, 2020
11 Fresh Masturbation Ideas To Spice Up Your Solo Play, Straight From Sexperts
We have to imagine that people have been masturbating in some form since the dawn…
By Mary Grace Garis & Helen Carefoot
6 Sex-Positive, Inclusive Online Workshops To Take For Your Hottest Summer Yet
June 23, 2020
6 Sex-Positive, Inclusive Online Workshops To Take For Your Hottest Summer Yet
In late 2019, Well+Good predicted that 2020 would mark an all-time high point for the…
By Kells McPhillips
How Sexual Nostalgia Could Be Getting in the Way of Your Current Pleasure Needs
June 19, 2020
How Sexual Nostalgia Could Be Getting in the Way of Your Current Pleasure Needs
Good sex doesn't end with the physical act itself. Whether the session in question is…
By Emily Laurence
The 8-Question Sex Check-In To Keep Pleasure In Tact Even During Times of Crisis
June 15, 2020
The 8-Question Sex Check-In To Keep Pleasure In Tact Even During Times of Crisis
One inarguable truth about this year to date is that it's sparked quite a bit…
By Mary Grace Garis
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