51 of the Best Valentine’s Day Gifts for Couples—No Matter Your Relationship Stage

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No matter the relationship stage you're in—dating, married, or in a situationship—Valentine's Day can turn up the pressure for extravagant, rom-com worthy displays of love and devotion. But the reality isn’t always as romantic. If you’ve been with someone for a really long time, the same old heart-shaped box of chocolates and flowers might begin to feel a bit stale, and if you’re just getting started with someone new, you might be itching to gush, but wary of going overboard.

Truth be told, there is no "perfect" Valentine's Day gift for couples, but there are some that are better than others.

What is the most popular Valentine's Day gift?

Gifts are great and all, but the honest truth is that time spent with your partner is the best gift of them all. Which is why we think that the best Valentine’s Day gifts for couples are the ones that you can enjoy together, and that pave the way for more meaningful quality time.

For example, if you and your partners are foodies who love to cook new recipes at home, new cookware or matching aprons will make cooking meals together even more special. If you’re homebodies who love to lounge and practice self care together, a comfy robe, slippers, and blanket would all make delightful Valentine’s Day gifts. And if you can’t keep your hands off each other, there are countless sexy gift options out there that’ll set sparks flying in the bedroom, from vibrators to lube. To spare you the headache of having to track these gifts down yourself, we rounded up the very best Valentine’s Day gifts for couples that you can shop right now (which we’d gently recommend, as V-day is less than a month away!)

Sexy gifts

we vibe chorus vibrator, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples on a white background
We-Vibe, Chorus — $199.00

This couples vibrator is designed to be inserted into the vagina during penetrative sex, sending stimulating vibrations to the clitoris, G-spot, and penis at the same time. And you can operate it via the remote control—which responds to you squeezing it to ramp up the intensity. It even has a touch-sensitive function that allows the Chorus to respond to your body movements!

positions of the day playbook, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Nerve.com, Position of the Day Playbook: Sex Every Day in Every Way — $12.00

With positions called “Love is Blind,” “Tickle Me Elmo,” and “A Moveable Feast,” this saucy book of sex positions is guaranteed to help keep things interesting in the bedroom.

maude massage candle set on a white background, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Maude, Burn Trio Massage Candle Gift Set — $54.00

If you and your Valentine want to heat things up this Valentine’s Day, this trio of massage candles is the way to do it. The jojoba-oil based candles melt down into a skin nourishing massage oil that offers the perfect amount of slip, while moisturizing and softening skin.

selfmade intimacy serum, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Selfmade, Self Disclosure Intimacy Serum — $28.00

Made with a blend of silky plant-derived oils, Selfmade’s gynecologist-tested Intimacy Serum can be used externally on erogenous areas of the body for added slip and sensuality. Use it with a partner for enhanced exploration or solo for elevated pleasure.

House of Wise, Sex Gummies — $49.00

These tasty gummies are blended with full-spectrum CBD and load of other popular aphrodisiacs, like maca, horny goat weed, and ashwagandha. Needless to say, they’re great for ~getting in the mood~ and are the libido boost no bedside table should go without.

Playboy Pleasure, Petal Vibrator — $74.00

Swap the bouquet of roses with this steamier vibrating option that’ll make vulva-owners bloom in pleasure. The stem on this flower is actually a flicking tongue equipped with nine patterns and speeds to stimulate the clitoris, vulva, and anus. Needless to say, giftees will “accept this rose”, no questions asked.

drunk in love card game on top of a wine glass, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Drunk In Love: A Couples Drinking Game — $26.00

If you and your partner want to have an even happier happy hour, this fun drinking game is the way to do it (though you could just as easily play with mocktails instead of a cocktail.) With 100 cards in the deck, this 2-person card game is sure to spark laughs and conversation. The rules are simple: follow whatever the card says, or take a drink. It’s basically the adult version of Truth or Dare, only instead of spilling secrets, you’re sipping your drink.

kate mcleod sex stone next to jar, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Kate McLeod, Sex Stone Lotion Bar — $45.00

This solid massage bar is a must-buy Valentine’s Day gift for any couple whose love language is physical touch. In addition to nourishing dry skin, the Sex Stone functions as a lubricant in intimate situations, offering the perfect amount of glide.

pulse lube dispenser with lubricant pods, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Pulse, Warming Lubricant Dispenser — $199.00

This high-tech lubricant dispenser is the only gadget you’ll want to keep at your bedside. Designed to be used with the brand’s compatible lube pods (which are available in water, aloe, and silicone based formulas), the dispenser gently warms the perfect amount of lube in a pinch.

model wearing lunya silk pajama set in white, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Lunya, Washable Silk Tee Set — $198.00

This silky soft pajama set is made of 100 percent Mulberry silk and is thermoregulating to keep you cool and comfortable all night long. The best part, though, is that it’s machine washable (hold for applause). They also come in a matching men’s style that’s equally luxe.

Homebody gifts

date night generator
Uncommon Goods, Mix It Up: Date Night Generator — $25.00

For the couple that can’t decide where to eat or what to watch before scrapping the idea altogether, this Date Night Generator will release you from the burden of choice. With more than 100,000 possible combinations, the creative deck is packed with prompts that’ll help decide what to do, making date night that much more enjoyable.

brooklinen weighted blanket, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Brooklinen, Weighted Blanket — $152.00

Originally $169, now $152

This Brooklinen Weighted Blanket feels as comforting as a warm hug and helps combat stress and anxiety while it’s on. It’s the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for couples to enjoy some R&R together, or long distance pairs who want to snuggle in sync.

parachute cloud robe on a white background
Parachute, Cotton Cloud Robe — $109.00

Available sizes: XS-3X

Recreate the feeling of relaxing in a fancy hotel robe by treating you and your partner to matching Cloud Robes from Parachute. The luxe robe is made of 100-percent Turkish cotton and has a plush gauze that feels uber-soft on skin. Note: some sizes are selling out quickly, so act fast on this one!

Colors: 7

se6 candle one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples, on a white background
Ya Thamani, SE6 Candle — $60.00

With notes of olive wood, bergamot, and rose, this Ya Thamani Candle has a soft, inviting scent that’s grounding, romantic, and luxurious all at once—making it an instant mood-maker for your Valentine’s Day night-in.

shiatsu massager on a white background
Nekteck, Shiatsu Neck and Back Massager — $50.00

Originally $70, now $50

This ultra-soothing neck and shoulder massager is the third wheel you never knew you needed. It delivers a heated deep tissue massage so good, those stress induced knots won’t stand a chance.

bronax cloud slippers in pink on a white background
Bronax, Cloud Slippers — $24.00

Originally $36, now $24

Available sizes: 4-16

With over 20,000 5-star ratings on Amazon, these affordable house slippers feel like you’re walking on a cloud. Which obviously means you’ll have to get your Valentine a matching pair.

Colors: 14

fur bath drops on a white background, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Fur, Bath Drops — $38.00

For the couple that prefers baths to showers, these Fur bath beads are packed with nourishing oils like jojoba and grapeseed oil, along with the brand’s signature Fur Oil that’s beloved for its hydrating benefits that totally banish dry, itchy skin.

not pot cbd gummies on a white background
Not Pot, Original CBD Gummies — $30.00

Made to help combat everyday stress and anxiety, each one of these Not Pot gummies contains 20 mg of sustainably sourced, lab-tested, hemp-derived CBD. Plus they’re vegan, gluten-free, and taste like strawberries—what’s not to love?

Easyplant, Anthurium — $88.00

Originally $98, now $88

For couples who are also proud plant parents, treating yourselves to a new houseplant is a fool-proof Valentine’s Day gift—especially when it waters itself. All Easyplant plants come with self-watering pot you fill up once a month and forget about, meaning you’ll never have to worry about not feeding it too much or too little. Anthuriums thrive in bright, indirect light and are one of the longest blooming house plants—which means you can enjoy their gorgeous, pink blooms for longer.

Food and wine gifts

wine simple book, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
"Wine Simple" by Aldo Sohm and Christine Muhlke — $18.00

For the couple of sommeliers in training, this book is the perfect beginners guide to all things vino. Through colorful and easy to follow infographics, this approachable, info-stuffed wine book will teach you about key wine making styles, ideal pairings, how to develop your palette, and more.

caraway cookware set, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Caraway, Cookware Set — $395.00

Originally $545, now $395

For the couple that loves to cook, Valentine’s Day is a solid excuse to splurge on fancy new cookware. This Caraway Cookware Set is beloved by team W+G for multiple reasons: the ceramic non-stick coating is truly non-stick (and lasts!), they’re easy to clean, and they come with convenient pan and lid storage solutions.

dusen dusen apron on a white background
Dusen Dusen, Stripe Cotton Apron — $48.00

If you and your partner love cooking together, trust that you’ll love it even more in matching aprons. These Dusen Dusen aprons are made of a durable cotton, and have a playful striped pattern that’ll make you look like the cutest chefs in town.

virtual cooking class, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Sur La Table, Virtual Cooking Classes — $29.00

Classes start at $29 per household

If you’re looking for an experience-led gift, Sur La Table’s virtual cooking classes are a great option. You and your Valentine will get the chance to be taught by an expert chef, and making something new (and delicious) from the comfort of your home kitchen. Besides, it beats fighting over a restaurant reservation.

Coffee gifts

bialetti mini espresso maker for two
Bialetti, Mini Express Color Moka Set with 2 Cups — $43.00

Originally $50, now $43

You know what they say—couples that espresso together, stay together. Maybe they don’t say that, but they should. The Bialetti Mini Express takes your traditional Moka Pot and splits it in two, brewing up two espresso shots at the same time, making it a great Valentine’s Day gift for couples who bond over their morning coffee time.

kissing mugs on a beige background, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Uncommon Goods, The Kissing Mugs — $65.00

A Valentine’s Day gift that’s both cute and practical, these adorable face-shaped mugs will make you and your partner’s coffee breaks all the more special. Whether you’re sipping on coffee together or apart, this unique set will keep your loved one at top of mind.

moccamaster coffee maker, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Technivorm Moccamaster, Moccamaster 53947 KBGV 10-Cup Coffee Maker — $359.00

If you and your partner are in the mood to splurge this Valentine’s Day on a kitchen gift you’ll both fall head over heels for, let it be this drip coffee maker. Not only is it a tried, tested, and true W+G team favorite, it’ll save you serious cash on trips to the coffeeshop. Plus there’s over 20 color options to choose from, guaranteeing you’ll find one to suit your kitchen.

partner's coffee subscription, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Partner’s Coffee, Roaster's Choice Subscription — $18.00

For the caffeinated couple who can’t go a day without coffee, this subscription from Partner’s Coffee (the brand behind our all-time favorite instant coffee) is the Valentine’s Day gift that’ll keep your coffee cupboard stocked at all times. The Roaster’s Choice option is just that—a random coffee choice handpicked by Partner’s expert roasters, so you can experience something new every month.

Long-distance gifts

one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples, the letters to open when...book
Lea Redmond, Letters to Open When... — $12.00

Originally $15, now $12

For long-distance couples who want to rekindle the lost art of letter writing, this book of prompted, tear-out letters makes for a heartwarming Valentine’s Day gift to give your partner before parting. Whether they’re in need of motivation or guidance before a big decision, they’ll be able to open a handwritten letter from you for some peace of mind.

Artifact Uprising, Hardcover Photo Book — $61.00

Originally $72, now $61

Gift your significant other a keepsake photo album they can enjoy for years to come, especially in those moments when you’re physically not together. Artifact Uprising has hundreds of customizable photo products you can create, packaging your most precious memories in an heirloom-quality gift they’ll cherish forever.

Farmgirl Flowers, Just Right Bouquet — $79.00

If you’re dating someone from a distance, you can never go wrong with a classic: a beautiful bouquet of flowers. But not just any flowers—farm-fresh blooms curated to double as art wherever they’re on display. For that, go with Farmgirl Flowers, the female-founded florist that ships hand-picked blooms nationwide. Its line of burlap-wrapped arrangements are positively adorable, each flower and sprig thoughtfully placed to wow your significant other upon arrival (and it’ll wow them, indeed.)

Bouquets (both burlap-wrapped and vases) start at $79. Shipping is additional and ranges depending on delivery date and location.

Game gifts

some like it hot puzzle, a valentine's day gift for couples
Piecework Puzzles, Some Like It Hot Jigsaw Puzzle — $27.00

Originally $38, now $27

For couples who love a night in, this spicy 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle from Piecework makes for a fun (and challenging) Valentine’s Day activity. Plus, it’s currently on sale!

cinephile game on a white background
Uncommon Goods, Cinephile Game — $20.00

If you and your Valentine never miss a new movie release, you’ll love putting your film knowledge to the test with this clever, movie-centric card game. Bowl of popcorn not included.

sunny life game set one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Sunnylife, Wooden Chess & Checkers Game Set — $55.00

Originally $100, now $55

This design-forward chess and checkers game set is just the kind of adult-y board game any couple needs in their game cabinet. The multicolored wooden game board has a pull-out drawer where all of the sculptural game pieces are stored—and looks good on your coffee table, too.

Practical home gifts

aesop hand soap on a white background
Aesop, Reverence Aromatique Hand Wash — $40.00

For couples that live together, a fancy hand soap is kind of a big deal. Even if your partner claims not to care, once they’ve tried an Aesop soap, they’ll recognize it as the treat that it is. The Reverence Wash has finely ground pumice for a satisfying, exfoliating effect, and smells like vetiver, petitgrain, and bergamot.

casper pillow, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Casper, Hybrid Memory Foam Pillow — $99.00

Sweet dreams are made of this Hybrid Memory Foam Pillow from Casper, making it a practical and comfortable Valentine’s Day gift for any couple who values their snooze time. Because a well-rested couple is a happy couple.

phlur tangerine boy body wash on a light grey background, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Phlur, Tangerine Boy Body Wash — $30.00

The body-wash version of its newest fragrance, Phlur’s Tangerine Boy Body Wash has energizing notes of lemon and ginger, jasmine and zesty tangerine, on a warming base of spicy amber and moss. The genderless scent is so sexy and so fresh at the same time, making it a V-day treat that you and your partner will fall in love with.

dedcool linen and room spray on a red background
Dedcool, Room + Linen Spray in 01 “Taunt” — $40.00

For sheets that smell as sexy as they feel, you’ll want this Dedcool Room + Linen Spray. The brand’s best-selling “Taunt” scent has notes of florals and cassis, bergamot and fresh dew, along with warming amber and vanilla—creating a sensual aroma that’ll make your bed even more inviting. To take things up a notch, we recommend pairing it with the matching laundry detergent.

irobot vacuum, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples, on a white background
iRobot Roomba 694 Robot Vacuum — $179.00

Originally $274, now $179

If you think a robot vacuum isn’t romantic enough for Valentine’s Day, think again. Equipped with the brand’s patented Dirt Detect technology, this genius vacuum cleaner detects and cleans up messes, so you and your partner don’t have to. So you two can spend more time on what matters most—each other. And did we mention it’s on sale for 35 percent off?

big blanket, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Big Blanket, Original Stretch™ Blanket — $159.00

Measuring at a whopping 100 square feet, this truly oversized throw blanket is bigger than a king-sized blanket—so you’ll never have to wrestle over the covers ever again. What’s more, the soft, stretchy, and temperature regulating material will keep you cool and comfortable throughout your next movie marathon.

Music gifts

music print on top of an end table, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
The Artable, Custom Song Lyric Print — $30.00

Every couple has “their” song—turns your favorite song into wall art with this personalized song lyric print. Just add your name, song title, and artist before adding to your cart, and you’ll get a custom, keepsake worthy print shipped to your door and ready to frame.

Victrola, Vintage 3-Speed Bluetooth Portable Suitcase Record Player — $50.00

Vinyl-collecting couples, this Victrola portable record player deserves a place in your shopping cart. It blends retro with modern style, as it’s equipped to play all your favorite records or connect to your Bluetooth devices when you want stream something else. The best part? It packs up easy thanks to the suitcase-inspired design that allows you to take your tunes anywhere.

Adventure + outdoorsy gifts

scratch off world map, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Maps International, Scratch The World Travel Map — $27.00

For the couple with an ever-expanding bucket list, this scratchable world map will help you keep tabs on all the destinations you’ve visited. Plus, it doubles as wall art.

yeti cooler on a light grey background, one of the best valentine's day gifts for adventurous couples
Yeti, Hopper Flip 8 Soft Cooler — $200.00

For the couple that loves a day outdoors, this Yeti Cooler makes for an ideal V-day investment. On top of its ultra-durable design, the personal sized cooler easily accommodates enough drinks and ice for two people, making it a must-pack for romantic hikes, picnics, or days at the beach.

owala water bottle in red, one of the best valentine's day gifts for adventurous couples
Owala, FreeSip Insulated Stainless Steel Water Bottle — $29.00

Originally $33, now $29

Made to keep you hydrated throughout all of your outdoor adventures, the Owala Stainless Steel Water Bottle features a removable straw and a wide mouth spout for easy sipping—so everybody wins.

fuji film instax camera, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples, on a white background
Fujifilm, Fujifilm Instax Mini 40 Instant Camera — $96.00

For the selfie-savvy couple who loves making memories, this Fujifilm instant camera has a built-in one touch selfie mode and mirror that make it a welcome addition on vacations, date nights, and group hangs. The only thing you’ll love more than getting a photo printed in an instant, is the compact camera’s retro aesthetic.

Jewelry gifts

catbird lover's bracelet, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Catbird NYC, Lover’s Bracelet — $348.00

With a name like Lover’s Bracelet, you know this minimalist gold chain bracelet makes for a beautiful couples gift. It’s made with 100 percent recycled 14K gold and a touch wider and weighter than Catbird’s other chains, for a look that makes a statement alone, or paired with other pieces. Snag one for you and your Valentine for a sweet matching moment.

mindful breathing necklace on a light beige background
Todd and Vanessa Steinberg, Mindful Breathing Necklace — $105.00

Inspired by the breathing techniques of ancient Japanese Komusō monks, this Mindful Breathing Necklace helps calm anxiety, so you can stay present. Just inhale normally, and exhale through the straw pendant for a mini meditation throughout the day.

Edible gifts

magnolia bakery sampler on a light grey background, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Magnolia Bakery, "Best of Magnolia Bakery" Date Night Sampler Pack — $48.00

The ideal way to top off your Valentine’s Day date night, this mouthwatering sampler pack from New York’s iconic Magnolia Bakery includes two cups of its famous chocolate covered strawberry pudding (which is made fresh and ships the same day it’s made), and two Valentine’s Day cupcakes.

make your own chocolate truffles kit on a light beige background
Uncommon Goods, Make Your Own Chocolate Truffles Kit — $25.00

Originally $38, now $25

Instead of going the heart shaped box of chocolate route, make a heartwarming memory with your Valentine by making your own chocolate truffles instead. This easy to follow kit includes everything you need—from the French dark chocolate morsels to all the tasty add-ins like Himalayan salt, coconut flakes, vanilla, and more.

sugarfina candy bento box, one of the best valentine's day gifts for couples
Sugarfina, XOXO 8-Piece Candy Bento Box — $76.00

For the couple that could do serious damage in a candy store, this Sugarfina Bento Box is positively loaded with all of the gourmet candy varieties they could hope for—from champagne and rosé gummy bears to peach bellini (rings) and dark chocolate caramels.

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