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The Sexiest Gifts To Give Your Partner (or Yourself) This Holiday Season

Saanya Ali

Photo: Getty Images/Christopher Bernard
The holiday season has finally arrived, and it's not a bad excuse to introduce some new toys to your bedroom. We're talking sexy toys—from silky slips to sexy games, massage candles to vibrators, and so much more. Those chestnuts roasting on the open fire don't have to be the only things getting you hot under the collar this season, if ya catch our drift.

Spice up this holiday season for yourself, a friend, or your S.O. by wrapping up some steamy fun in a big old bow. What's more holly jolly than pleasure? Scroll down for a sexy gift guide filled with 30 unique presents that will have every giftee on your list saying "Ohhhhhh" with a capital O. They are truly the gifts that keep on giving (and giving and giving).

Best sex toy gifts

Zalo Baby Heart Personal Massager — $89.00

Need proof that sex toys come in all shapes and sizes? This heart shaped vibrator is cute, petite, and looks oh-so-luxe while it gets the job done. It’s great to stimulate your clit and other erogenous zones, but also brings pleasure if you stroke it along your neck, collar bone, and décolletage, too.

Le Wand Petite — $140.00

If you’re traveling for the holidays and don’t want to pack a wand the size of a small arm, this fun-size version of the brand’s original Le Wand is here to save the day. It may look petite, but with 10 intensity levels and six vibration patterns, it is still supremely powerful.

OhMiBod Bluemotion Nex/2 — $129.00

Can’t be with your partner this holiday season? This app-controlled G-spot vibrator is here to save the day. It’s perfect for couples’ play when you can’t be in the same room.

Crave Vesper Vibrator — $69.00

If you’re on the hunt for something more discreet, this slim vibrator looks just like a necklace when it’s not doing the job. All four speeds and two modes are also whisper-quiet while you use them (though you may not be!).

Dame Eva Hands-Free Vibrator — $135.00

This waterproof vibrator is truly the definition of “look, no hands.” The Eva stays in place with wings that tuck under your labia so you can really stay in the moment while you play alone or with a partner.

Sweet Vibes Charmed Wand — $45.00

Waterproof and flexible, reviewers tout this ergonomically shaped wand for giving them their first big O. It’s durable, strong, and great for any sort of play with a whole host of speeds, intensities, and vibration patterns.


Best sexy lingerie to gift

Kiki De Montparnasse Classical Slip Dress — $595.00

This V-neck, 100 percent silk slip will have you feeling like you’re sleeping in the softest, most breathable ballgown. Kiki De Montparnasse is the French-girl approved Tesla of the lingerie world—truly top of the line—so the slip is sure to be sexy and elegant, but also supremely durable.

Eberjey Cecilia Modal Teddy — $97.00

Reviewers tout this teddy for being the softest, “most comfortable item to sleep in.” It’s the perfect mix of sexy and comfy, and features a lace trim for an elevated look.

Fleur du Mal Gardenia Lace Bodysuit — $225.00

Everyone needs a LBB (Little Black Bodysuit) in their permanent lingerie collection, and this one is as classic as it gets. The underwire cups are flattering no matter what size you are, and the bottom snap closure makes it easy to take on and off.

NK Imode Natasha Lace Kimono — $355.00

Channel big “main character energy” in this silk kimono-style robe. The style both looks and feels extremely luxurious and is both vintage and timeless all at once.

Journelle Charlotte Camisole — $120.00

This lightweight camisole is versatile enough to pair with the matching shorts for a sexy PJ set, but also chic enough to wear with jeans on a night out.

Cosabella Kalahari Underwire Bodysuit — $216.00

Nothing says glamor like intricate embroidery, and nothing makes you stand taller and walk with a confident pep in your step like wearing lingerie under your clothes. This mesh bodysuit will have you strutting around town like a queen.

Gooseberry Intimates Dainty Bra — $65.00

With six different colors to choose from, this demi underwire bra is sexy while still being supportive. The lace is elegant and features a subtle floral embroidery. Pair it with the matching thong for the full set.

Skims Silk Teddy — $118.00

This saucy silk teddy is the perfect combination of loungewear and lingerie. The cheeky back is supremely flattering, while the breathable fit makes it comfortable enough to swan around the house in.


Sexy games and books

Press Here! Sensual Massage for Beginners — $17.00

Nothing feels better than a massage, and the best ones come with a side of love and attraction. This book is the perfect intro guide to the art of sensual massage.

Let's Fucking Fuck Card Game — $25.00

Whether you’re just starting dating, FWBs, meeting at a bar, or married with kids, this card game is the perfect way to talk about fantasies, desires, and what you want in bed. It has provocative questions meant to really get you in the mood.

I Dare You: 30 Sealed Seductions — $15.00

Made by sexpert Susie Bright, this box of prompts and dares is great to mix up your sex life with a bit of adventure.

Hookup Without Heartbreak by Lia Holmgren — $20.00

Learn about love, sex, sexuality, and hookup culture with this new book from intimacy and relationship expert, Lia Holmgren. The book features personal stories, advice, and tip and tricks for better communication when it comes to all things intimate.


Sexy home good gifts

Maude Burn No. 0 — $25.00

This unscented candle is made for massaging. The skin-softening jojoba oil melts as you light it, and it feels amazing on your skin whether you rub it on yourself or with the help of a partner (don’t worry, it doesn’t get to as high of a temp as a regular candle, so you won’t burn yourself!).

Parachute Percale Starter Bedroom Bundle — $428.00

Between-the-sheets fun is even better when the sheets feel oh-so-luxurious. This bedding set has everything you need to make your bed the throne of your dreams.

Lord Jones The Gumdrop Variety Trio — $105.00

Reach peak calm with this set of CBD gumdrops. The CBD is great for relaxation and getting in the mood while the luxe packaging makes it perfectly giftable.

Dame Pillo — $95.00

Itching to experiment with new angles and positions? This firm, yet comfortable, pillow is here to help you reach your climax no matter what you’re trying out.

GE Lighting LED+ Color Changing Light Bulb with Remote Control — $9.00

Get in the mood with some ambiance lighting, care of GE. This color changing bulb can turn any room into a pleasure palace.

Lelo Flickering Touch Massage Candle — $35.00

With three unique scents to choose from, this all-natural soy wax candle uses shea butter and apricot kernel oil to melt into a luxurious feeling oil that’s perfect for a sensual massage.

Moon Juice Sex Dust — $38.00

This adaptogenic formula contains Shatavari, Shilajit, Epimedium, Schisandra, Cacao and Maca to help target stress, stimulate the senses, support hormone balance, and spark creativity, both in the bedroom and out of it.


Sexy gift sets

High on Love Minis Pleasure Collection — $78.00

All made with hemp oil, these products will seduce your senses during foreplay, and they come with a mini vibrator for solo enjoyment!

Foria The All Night Long Kit — $127.00

Want to try all of the brand’s bestsellers at once? This limited edition kit features a full size sex oil, four suppositories, and bath salts.

UPKO Luxury Italian Leather Bondage Tools Set — $550.00

Packed with everything you might need to fill all of your BDSM fantasies, this luxury case is sexy, glamorous, and stocked. Including a leash, cuffs, restraints and more, it’s perfect for anyone that’s been on the naughty list.

Lovability Get Wet Pack — $75.00

Made for a toe-curling self love session, this kit includes everything you need to turn your bathtub into a night of fun.

Bijoux Indiscrets 12 Sexy Days — $145.00

Enjoy 12 sexy days with an advent calendar filled with 12 fun accessories and toys that are all bound to lead to 12 exciting and scintillating experiences.

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