Relationship Tips
I Faced Severe Pain To Get an IUD for the Sake of My Relationship—So, Yes, I Deserve a Gift From My Partner
June 12, 2023
I Faced Severe Pain To Get an IUD for the Sake of My Relationship—So, Yes, I Deserve a Gift From My Partner
In a healthy relationship, doing something to support the partnership or help your partner should…
By Summer Cartwright
Taking Genuine Interest in Your Partner by Building (and Adding to) a Love Map Is Key to a Strong Relationship
June 10, 2023
Taking Genuine Interest in Your Partner by Building (and Adding to) a Love Map Is Key to a Strong Relationship
When you first meet someone you’re interested in dating or pursuing a romantic relationship with,…
By Helen Carefoot
Your Guide to Gemini Personality Traits for a Complete Understanding of the Twin Sign
June 09, 2023
Your Guide to Gemini Personality Traits for a Complete Understanding of the Twin Sign
In astrology, those born between the dates of May 21 and June 21 are Geminis,…
By Mary Grace Garis
You Might Think You're Giving Great Advice, but Are You Really Just Projecting Your Own Issues?
June 07, 2023
You Might Think You're Giving Great Advice, but Are You Really Just Projecting Your Own Issues?
Human beings rely on each other for advice. Our relationships, which are central to our…
By Josey Murray 
What Is Enmeshment? How To Tell if You're Too Intertwined With a Partner
June 05, 2023
What Is Enmeshment? How To Tell if You're Too Intertwined With a Partner
Whether a couple is newly dating or in a long-term relationship, every relationship can look…
By Nandini Maharaj
‘I’m the Chief Dating Expert at Match, and I’m About To Get Remarried—Here’s What I’d Tell My Younger Self’
June 04, 2023
‘I’m the Chief Dating Expert at Match, and I’m About To Get Remarried—Here’s What I’d Tell My Younger Self’
Rachel DeAlto, chief dating expert at dating platform Match, has always prided herself on being…
By Erica Sloan
Use This Bingo Card of Seasonal Dates and Activities To Boost Your Bond With Your Partner
June 03, 2023
Use This Bingo Card of Seasonal Dates and Activities To Boost Your Bond With Your Partner
Maintaining a healthy, happy partnership takes work, but it also should include play. While serious…
By Helen Carefoot
Feel Strongly About Climate Change? Here's How To Navigate Those Values While Dating Without Getting 'Eco-Dumped'
June 02, 2023
Feel Strongly About Climate Change? Here's How To Navigate Those Values While Dating Without Getting 'Eco-Dumped'
As the impacts of climate change, like forest fires, extreme heat waves, and more severe…
By Bonnie Culbertson
Is Your Astrological Opposite the Best Match in Love and Friendship? Here’s What Astrologers Say About Your Compatibility
June 01, 2023
Is Your Astrological Opposite the Best Match in Love and Friendship? Here’s What Astrologers Say About Your Compatibility
Astrological polarity says we are magnetically drawn to the opposite zodiac sign from ours. It…
By Mary Grace Garis & Helen Carefoot
‘I'm a Longevity Expert, and I'm Begging You To Stop Canceling Your Social Plans’
May 29, 2023
‘I'm a Longevity Expert, and I'm Begging You To Stop Canceling Your Social Plans’
There are a bunch of memes on social media that all play off the same…
By Jennifer Heimlich
Feeling Disconnected From Your Partner? Make Sure Your ‘Emotional Bank Account’ Is in the Green
May 27, 2023
Feeling Disconnected From Your Partner? Make Sure Your ‘Emotional Bank Account’ Is in the Green
They say Rome wasn’t built in a day, and the same can be said about…
By Helen Carefoot
The Crucial Difference Between Trusting Your Gut and Being a Judgmental A-hole
May 26, 2023
The Crucial Difference Between Trusting Your Gut and Being a Judgmental A-hole
Trusting your gut has long been seen as imperfect and unreliable, a form of “woo-woo”…
By Kate Schweitzer
How To Deal When You’re Jealous of Your Friend's Connections With Their Other Friends
May 26, 2023
How To Deal When You’re Jealous of Your Friend's Connections With Their Other Friends
Friendships are essential to our lives, providing support, companionship, and shared experiences. However, it's not…
By Minaa B.
Want To Improve People's Lives? Call Them, Says Science
May 24, 2023
Want To Improve People's Lives? Call Them, Says Science
For some people, speaking on the phone is an infrequent, stress-inducing event. Others relish the…
By Helen Carefoot
4 Tips for Peacefully Cohabitating in a Relationship Where Only One Person Drinks Alcohol
May 24, 2023
4 Tips for Peacefully Cohabitating in a Relationship Where Only One Person Drinks Alcohol
The old adage says “opposites attract,” and, in some ways, it might be true. But…
By Hilary Sheinbaum
'I’m a 61-Year-Old Sex and Relationship Therapist, and These Are the 6 Habits That Keep Relationships Alive the Longest'
May 23, 2023
'I’m a 61-Year-Old Sex and Relationship Therapist, and These Are the 6 Habits That Keep Relationships Alive the Longest'
Time flies when you’re in love. The first few years of a new relationship are…
By Amelia McBride
I’m a Divorce Coach, and This Is the No. 1 Question I Get From Clients
May 22, 2023
I’m a Divorce Coach, and This Is the No. 1 Question I Get From Clients
As a divorce coach I work every day with brave women and men willing to…
By Andra Davidson
Why You May Feel So Tired (or Wired) After Having Sex—And How To Deal
May 22, 2023
Why You May Feel So Tired (or Wired) After Having Sex—And How To Deal
There’s a common caricature of heterosexual monogamous intercourse, wherein after climaxing, the man collapses into…
By Laura Wheatman Hill
Can You Be *Too* Empathetic? Here's What To Know About Hyper-Empathy Syndrome
May 20, 2023
Can You Be *Too* Empathetic? Here's What To Know About Hyper-Empathy Syndrome
In general, empathy is an enviable quality: Being able to understand and relate to how…
By Helen Carefoot
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Virgos—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
May 19, 2023
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Virgos—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
As the perfectionist of the zodiac, Virgo is known to hold high standards for themselves…
By Isadora Baum
How Beige Flags in a Relationship Differ From Red and Green Flags—And What To Do About Them
May 19, 2023
How Beige Flags in a Relationship Differ From Red and Green Flags—And What To Do About Them
In relationships, red flags can function as stop signs that might give you pause regarding…
By Sara Elizabeth Grossman
Can You Get Cavities From Kissing? Here's What a Dentist Wants You To Know
May 18, 2023
Can You Get Cavities From Kissing? Here's What a Dentist Wants You To Know
News I didn’t think I would hear today: Cavities are contagious, and you can “catch”…
By Ashley Broadwater
Is It Possible To Be *Too* Competitive? Watch Out for These 6 Red Flags
May 18, 2023
Is It Possible To Be *Too* Competitive? Watch Out for These 6 Red Flags
If you’ve ever played Monopoly against me, or stepped onto the treadmill next to mine…
By Kate Schweitzer
What To Say to Someone Who Just Got Laid Off
May 15, 2023
What To Say to Someone Who Just Got Laid Off
Getting laid off from work can take a toll on someone. Not only may they…
By Jessica Estrada
Why You Should Get Tested for STIs Annually—Even if You’re in a Monogamous Relationship
May 15, 2023
Why You Should Get Tested for STIs Annually—Even if You’re in a Monogamous Relationship
When you don't have any symptoms, getting tested for a sexually transmitted infection might not…
By Cathy Nelson
4 Morning Habits of the Longest-Living People in the World
May 15, 2023
4 Morning Habits of the Longest-Living People in the World
For lessons on longevity, you'd be remiss not to at least consider the morning habits…
By Francesca Krempa
The 3 Best (and 3 Worst) Things You Can Say To a Recently Dumped Friend, According to Mental Health Professionals
May 12, 2023
The 3 Best (and 3 Worst) Things You Can Say To a Recently Dumped Friend, According to Mental Health Professionals
Let's say your friend just got dumped by a romantic partner...or someone who they'd hoped…
By Elizabeth Cutler
The 4 Most Common Issues That Come Up During Sex Therapy, According to Sex Therapists Themselves
May 08, 2023
The 4 Most Common Issues That Come Up During Sex Therapy, According to Sex Therapists Themselves
As mental health stigma eases in American culture, data shows that people have been seeking…
By Anni Irish
3 Signs That You're Caught in the Anxious-Avoidant Dating Trap—And How To Stop the Cycle
May 07, 2023
3 Signs That You're Caught in the Anxious-Avoidant Dating Trap—And How To Stop the Cycle
Learning about your attachment style (aka how you relate to others) can be quite the…
By Jessica Estrada
For Me, Gentle Parenting Is a Worthwhile But Challenging Endeavor—Here's What Parents Should Know Before Trying It
May 06, 2023
For Me, Gentle Parenting Is a Worthwhile But Challenging Endeavor—Here's What Parents Should Know Before Trying It
Just this morning, as part of my daily routine with my 6-year-old, I said the…
By Kate Schweitzer
You'll Know You've Found Your Ideal Travel Companion if They Have These 4 Qualities
May 05, 2023
You'll Know You've Found Your Ideal Travel Companion if They Have These 4 Qualities
Vacation can be a great opportunity to relax, unwind, and build memories. But the life-boosting…
By Helen Carefoot
Therapists Share How To Heal After Dating Someone With Sociopathic Tendencies
May 03, 2023
Therapists Share How To Heal After Dating Someone With Sociopathic Tendencies
Swipe through 25 people on your dating app of choice, and odds are at least…
By Gabrielle Kassel
The 2 Most Common Distinctions Between a Rough Patch and a Reason To Break Up for Real
April 30, 2023
The 2 Most Common Distinctions Between a Rough Patch and a Reason To Break Up for Real
No relationship is perfect, and couples are bound to encounter obstacles that can make or…
By Helen Carefoot
I'm a Modern Love Psychotherapist, and Here Are 3 Tips for Dealing With a Jealous Partner
April 30, 2023
I'm a Modern Love Psychotherapist, and Here Are 3 Tips for Dealing With a Jealous Partner
Lia Love Avellino, LCSW, is a relational psychotherapist who specializes in modern love. She believes…
By Lia Avellino, LCSW
How To Manage Your Social Life This Spring and Summer if You're Already Feeling Overwhelmed by an Influx of Invites
April 28, 2023
How To Manage Your Social Life This Spring and Summer if You're Already Feeling Overwhelmed by an Influx of Invites
Winter is finally in the rearview, and with it, so are the cold days of…
By Helen Carefoot
Knowing Your Sex ‘Initiation Style’ Can Make Your Sex Life So Much More Fulfilling
April 27, 2023
Knowing Your Sex ‘Initiation Style’ Can Make Your Sex Life So Much More Fulfilling
Having partnered sex has proven mood- and health-boosting benefits, besides being a great way to…
By Helen Carefoot
Long-Term Health Is Connected to a Healthy Bond With Your Parents as a Teen—But What if That Wasn't Your Reality?
April 26, 2023
Long-Term Health Is Connected to a Healthy Bond With Your Parents as a Teen—But What if That Wasn't Your Reality?
Many studies have found that the way parents interact with their children matters as they…
By Helen Carefoot
I'm a Sex Coach in a Monogamish Relationship—Here’s How I Handle the Fear and Jealousy That Can Come With Non-Monogamy
April 25, 2023
I'm a Sex Coach in a Monogamish Relationship—Here’s How I Handle the Fear and Jealousy That Can Come With Non-Monogamy
Even if you know wholeheartedly that you want to be non-monogamous, actually engaging in that…
By Quean Mo
How To Embrace Your Partner’s Hobbies Without Losing Yourself
April 23, 2023
How To Embrace Your Partner’s Hobbies Without Losing Yourself
I’m in Augusta, Georgia, at the most exclusive country club in America, weathering the pouring…
By Rachel Kraus
It Can Be Way Harder To Process a Breakup When No One Did Anything Wrong—Here's Why
April 21, 2023
It Can Be Way Harder To Process a Breakup When No One Did Anything Wrong—Here's Why
There’s a lot to be said for the amicable breakup. It’s often seen as the…
By Kate Schweitzer
3 Signs That Your Relationship May Be Fizzling Out—And What To Do About It, According to Relationship Experts
April 20, 2023
3 Signs That Your Relationship May Be Fizzling Out—And What To Do About It, According to Relationship Experts
The dissolution of a relationship can happen in any number of ways. And whether things…
By Helen Carefoot
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Taurus—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
April 20, 2023
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Taurus—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
As one of the fixed earth signs of the zodiac, Taurus is known to be…
By Isadora Baum
5 Signs *Your* Behavior Is Passive-Aggressive—And How To Better Communicate Your Feelings
April 20, 2023
5 Signs *Your* Behavior Is Passive-Aggressive—And How To Better Communicate Your Feelings
It takes two to have an argument (or even a minor disagreement). And when the…
By Erica Sloan
5 Ways To Have an Orgasm if Your Psych Drugs Are Getting in the Way
April 20, 2023
5 Ways To Have an Orgasm if Your Psych Drugs Are Getting in the Way
Several years ago, I joined the 24 percent of Americans who take medication for their…
By Sarah Bregel
Getting a Grip on My Finances Was Easier Than I Thought, and It Sent My Confidence Through the Roof
April 18, 2023
Getting a Grip on My Finances Was Easier Than I Thought, and It Sent My Confidence Through the Roof
Two months ago, the life moves I'm making right now seemed terrifying. I'm in the…
By Naomi F
Many People Don’t Tell Their Partners About Chronic Health Condition(s). Here’s Why—And What Helps
April 18, 2023
Many People Don’t Tell Their Partners About Chronic Health Condition(s). Here’s Why—And What Helps
As close as we are to our significant others, there are always certain things we…
By Ashley Broadwater
Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? According to Relationship Experts, That Depends
April 15, 2023
Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? According to Relationship Experts, That Depends
There’s no question that breakups are tough. They can happen for a variety of reasons.…
By Helen Carefoot
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Leo—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
April 14, 2023
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Leo—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
Those born in Leo (July 22 to August 22) are ruled by the sun. And…
By Isadora Baum
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Aquarius—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
April 13, 2023
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Aquarius—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
Aquarius, the eleventh sign of the zodiac, marches to the beat of its own drum.…
By Isadora Baum
'I’m a Sex Therapist, and Here's Why You Should Make Out With Your S.O. Every Night Before Bed'
April 12, 2023
'I’m a Sex Therapist, and Here's Why You Should Make Out With Your S.O. Every Night Before Bed'
The early stages of a relationship are often teeming with sexual chemistry—the kind that makes…
By Helen Carefoot
How Breaking Your People-Pleasing Habit Can Improve Your Sex and Dating Life
April 11, 2023
How Breaking Your People-Pleasing Habit Can Improve Your Sex and Dating Life
As a recovering people-pleaser, I have a history of chronically prioritizing other people’s needs out…
By Ella Dorval Hall
The 4 Foundational Rules Required for a Healthy Friends With Benefits Relationship—And What To Do When Things Get Complicated
April 10, 2023
The 4 Foundational Rules Required for a Healthy Friends With Benefits Relationship—And What To Do When Things Get Complicated
The meaning behind “friends with benefits” often gets bungled based on preconceived notions at two…
By Kate Schweitzer
Here's How Taking a 15-Minute Walk Every Day Changed My Life
April 07, 2023
Here's How Taking a 15-Minute Walk Every Day Changed My Life
I've wanted to be consistent with my walking again for quite some time. I'm not…
By Erin Cryder
What Is the Bristle Reaction and Does It Mean Something Is Wrong in My Relationship?
April 06, 2023
What Is the Bristle Reaction and Does It Mean Something Is Wrong in My Relationship?
There’s a reason the beginning of a relationship is often called the honeymoon phase. Characterized…
By Helen Carefoot
What To Know About the Communication Practice Called Mirroring—Including When It Can Actually Make Your Comms Worse
April 05, 2023
What To Know About the Communication Practice Called Mirroring—Including When It Can Actually Make Your Comms Worse
Mirroring may sound like a reference to Snow White, or a design choice that makes…
By Gabrielle Kassel
I Started Taking Walks With My Husband Every Evening, and It’s Allowed Us To Connect in Surprising Ways
April 05, 2023
I Started Taking Walks With My Husband Every Evening, and It’s Allowed Us To Connect in Surprising Ways
It started toward the beginning of the pandemic, when the world was on lockdown. Taking…
By Alyssa Sparacino
I’m a Therapist, and This Is How To Respond When You’re Not Ready To Accept an Apology
April 04, 2023
I’m a Therapist, and This Is How To Respond When You’re Not Ready To Accept an Apology
It’s true that people make mistakes, but what is also true is that there is…
By Minaa B.
5 Ways To Support a Friend or Loved One Going Through a Big Surgery
April 04, 2023
5 Ways To Support a Friend or Loved One Going Through a Big Surgery
So someone you know and love has a major surgery on their calendar. You want…
By Han Schneider
Are You More of an Introvert or an Extrovert? Take This Quiz To Find Out Once and for All
April 04, 2023
Are You More of an Introvert or an Extrovert? Take This Quiz To Find Out Once and for All
If you’ve ever told someone that you prefer going out to staying in, they might…
By Natalie Arroyo Camacho & Korin Miller
Why It's Actually Really Hot To Be a Goofy Goober
April 04, 2023
Why It's Actually Really Hot To Be a Goofy Goober
Several classic (if clichéd) responses to the question, “What are you looking for in a…
By Erica Sloan
There Are 2 Types of Envy—Benign and Malicious—But Both Can Affect Your Friendships
April 02, 2023
There Are 2 Types of Envy—Benign and Malicious—But Both Can Affect Your Friendships
Picture this: Your best friend calls you in the middle of a hectic work day…
By Amelia McBride
'I'm a Matchmaker, and These Are the 4 Mistakes I Advise People Not To Make on First Dates'
March 27, 2023
'I'm a Matchmaker, and These Are the 4 Mistakes I Advise People Not To Make on First Dates'
First dates evoke all sorts of emotions, like excitement, anticipation, and nervousness. Whether it’s an…
By Helen Carefoot
'I'm a Sex Therapist, and These Are the Most-Common Questions Couples Ask Me'
March 25, 2023
'I'm a Sex Therapist, and These Are the Most-Common Questions Couples Ask Me'
Sex is an important part of most romantic relationships, yet it can be confusing, emotionally…
By Helen Carefoot
I'm an Astrologer, and Here's What You Need To Know About Moon-Phase Compatibility
March 25, 2023
I'm an Astrologer, and Here's What You Need To Know About Moon-Phase Compatibility
As an astrologer, I love to consider a person’s natal moon phase—aka the phase that…
By Dani Fankhauser
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Aries—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
March 22, 2023
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Aries—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, which explains why Aries traits include often…
By Rebecca Norris
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Pisces—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
March 20, 2023
The Zodiac Signs That Are Totally Compatible With Pisces—And the Signs That Most Definitely Aren’t
As the psychic empaths of the zodiac, those born in Pisces (February 18 to March…
By Isadora Baum
How To Use the 'Sofa Theory of Dating' To Find Love in 5 Steps
March 18, 2023
How To Use the 'Sofa Theory of Dating' To Find Love in 5 Steps
There are all sorts of factors that can cause dating burnout and discouragement. You may be…
By Helen Carefoot
Sex Experts Say These 12 Pieces of Sex Furniture May Be Better Than Your Bed
March 18, 2023
Sex Experts Say These 12 Pieces of Sex Furniture May Be Better Than Your Bed
Not to get too personal, but some of the best sex I’ve ever had has…
By Natalie Arroyo Camacho
I’m a Relationship Scientist, and Here’s What Happened When I Went on a New 'Friend Date' Every Day for a Month
March 16, 2023
I’m a Relationship Scientist, and Here’s What Happened When I Went on a New 'Friend Date' Every Day for a Month
There’s an epidemic of loneliness, you know, my clients often tell me. I’m a marriage…
By Marisa Cohen
6 Types of Narcissists—And the One You Really Need To Avoid, According to Mental Health Experts
March 14, 2023
6 Types of Narcissists—And the One You Really Need To Avoid, According to Mental Health Experts
The term “narcissist” is much like the term “anti-social” in that it's often haphazardly misused.…
By Korin Miller
How To Handle a Partner Who Regularly Fat Shames You
March 12, 2023
How To Handle a Partner Who Regularly Fat Shames You
In our society, it’s not uncommon for people to make jokes about someone's weight, or to point…
By Nandini Maharaj
To Boost Your Social Life, Go to Bed—No, Seriously
March 12, 2023
To Boost Your Social Life, Go to Bed—No, Seriously
At first thought, it may seem like good sleep is the enemy of an active…
By Erica Sloan
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